The Complete Book of Pregnancy and Childbirth

book coverThe Complete Book of Pregnancy and Childbirth by Sheila Kitzinger
I’d looked through this book during my last pregnancy, and it made it onto my pregnancy list. But, I hadn’t read it all the way through. This time, I read both the most recent (2004) and the earlier 1997 edition of this classic. Kitzinger is England’s premier natural childbirth advocate. The book includes baby development at the beginning, pregnancy by trimester, labor and birth, and newborn care. Each trimester includes considerations for birth appropriate to that phase. Continue reading →

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Protected: Challenge

This content is password-protected. To view it, please enter the password below.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | Enter your password to view comments.

The Birth Partner

book coverThe Birth Partner by Penny Simkin When I prepared to give birth, I hired a doula, a professional birth support person. She made a huge difference in making the whole birth experience smoother and more positive, and I recommend hiring a doula to anyone giving birth. But, suppose you can’t hire a doula? Suppose you want your parenting partner or your best friend to come to the birth with you? Or, that such a person wants to educate him or herself to be able to help you even if you have a doula as well. In that case, you want this book. It covers pregnancy, birth and newborn care from the perspective of a partner, rather than the mother or a medical professional. It includes such topics as preparing for labor, helping the mother find an effective labor coping pattern, common medical interventions, their side effects and risks and how to discuss them with hospital staff, what to do if there is a personality conflict between the mother and the assigned nurse or doctor, and how to best support a mother in labor who’s changed her mind about what she wants from her birth plan. I read the old, falling-apart edition that my midwifery still keeps. This edition placed rather more stress on the importance of learning and practicing several breathing patterns than is currently in vogue (my birth class instructor said that practicing breathing before you were in labor was like practicing breathing for a marathon without running); I don’t know if the new edition has changed. Overall, however, the information was extremely helpful. There are even helpful summary pages labeled in white text on darker bars on the sides of pages, so you can fan out the pages and find the part you need in the heat of things. Simkin is the founder of Doulas of North America/DONA, and this book is required reading for many doula training courses as well.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Martha Stewart’s Encyclopedia of Crafts

book coverMartha Stewart’s Encyclopedia of Crafts by Martha Stewart This is an A to W book of enticing crafts requiring relatively little skill to make with mostly easily available supplies, of the kind that could be finished in an evening or weekend. Much to the dismay of my mother and husband, there are no years-to-become-intermediate crafts like knitting, bobbin lace or miniature painting. However, what is there is very good. Each type of craft includes the basics of the technique including materials and projects, including templates where appropriate. The glossary includes illustrated supplies by type – never have glues looked so attractive. Make flowers out of beads, clay, crepe paper, stamps, cut paper. There are lots of seasonal decorations, home décor, small gift and adornment items. And the book has that special Martha magic, where everything looks both possible and beyond perfect. It is so attractive, even the normally craft-averse LB wanted to look through the whole book and try some (napkin rings decorated with flowers made of pine cones.) Set-up costs seem prohibitive for most people to try more than a few of the many crafts, but the ideas are great and the crafts would mostly work well in small groups of friends or older kids, to split the cost and multiply the fun.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged | Leave a comment

The Thief

Thanks to jrl64 for loaning me this series… though this being a Newbery honor book, you’ll find the series in the library as well.

book coverThe Thief by Megan Whalen Turner When we first meet the thief, Gen is in jail, chained hand and foot and, without urgency, plotting how to escape. It turns out Gen had bragged that he could the king’s seal, and was promptly arrested when he succeeded. But very soon he is offered a deal: travel with the king’s Magus to steal an object from another kingdom so old and mythic that almost no one believes it exists now, if it ever did. After all, it was purportedly a gift from the Gods, and who in these civilized times really believes in the Gods? If found, it would enable the king to take over the neighboring mountain land of Eddis without a struggle. Gen also is named for Eugenides, the God of thieves, in this Greek-like world with somewhat more advanced technology than that of classical mythology. As the journey begins, Gen is whiny and belligerent, struggling with the Magus and the nobles and soldier sent to accompany them. But as the story goes on, new aspects of both Gen and his companions are revealed, and the final plot twist was entirely unexpected. The people are interesting, he setting beautiful, and the politics tricky enough to be interesting without involving so many players as to require great mental power. I plowed right through onto the next two, and am now joining the friends who loaned me the books in hoping for more.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged | 2 Comments

Tender Morsels

This is the first of three books I’ve recently read featuring women pregnant under unhappy circumstances or whose babies are threatened or both… probably not the best of choices for reading while pregnant, and I’m really not sure how it happened. Must find books with happier pregnancies next…

book coverTender Morsels by Margo Lanagan Here is a haunting retelling of the Grimm’s story of Snow White and Rose Red. It starts off in an extremely dark place as Liga Longfield, with a baby by her father and pregnant from a gang rape, is on the brink of suicide. She is granted her own personal paradise, where she can raise her daughters in peace and freedom. The older daughter, Branza, is blond and peaceful, while Urdda is dark and fiery. As the girls grow, they and Liga discover gaps in the barrier, as an unfriendly dwarf and then two bears who act like men – one friendly and one with clearer sexual intentions – come into the world and leave again. Urdda begins to chafe at the confines of the paradise as she grows older, and finds her own way out. Eventually, the alternate world breaks down entirely and Liga and Branza, too, are forced into dealing with the harshness of the real world. There’s a lot of thought here on the dark side of sexuality, as well as looking at what is too much pain and how healing can occur. It’s told in language that feels antique and rural, pulling the reader deeper into the tale. Tender Morsels was an honor book for the ALA’s award for teens, the Printz. One could also look at Patricia Wrede’s Snow White and Rose Red for an entirely different (and lighter) take on the tale.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | 1 Comment

The Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society

book coverThe Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society by Mary Ann Shaffer and Ann Barrows. Read by Various (cast) Another book that deserves to be a bestseller. Writer Juliet Ashton made a living writing humor about World War II, but now that the war is over she’s tired of humor and needs a new book topic. Then she receives a letter from a man on the island of Guernsey, who’s somehow come into possession of one of her old books and wants more of the same. As Juliet learns more about the occupation of Guernsey and the Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society that began first as a front for curfew-breakers, she corresponds with more and more of its members on Guernsey. The story is told entirely in letters and telegrams, to and from Juliet and her publisher, her best friend and the publisher’s sister, and the American publisher who’s smitten with her, as well as the various members of the Guernsey Literary and Potato Peel Pie Society. Though the war and its aftereffects are necessarily present and dark, the overall effect of the books is hopeful and extremely charming. The audio version is read by a nearly full cast, giving extra depth to the story. I listened with delight and wished the book went on longer than it did.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Ladybug Girl and Bumblebee Boy

book coverLadybug Girl and Bumblebee Boy by David Soman and Jacky Davis Lulu is dressed as Ladybug Girl (see last year’s book by that title) and ready to try out her superpowers at the park. When she gets there, she finds her friend Sam – but they can’t find anything they both want to play. Finally, Lulu decides to tell him about Ladybug Girl. Success! Sam decides to be Bumblebee Boy, and soon they are having such fun saving the playground from giant monsters that other children ask to join them. The premise might seem simple, but this book is pure genius. How many times now have I seen LB and his friends come to blows because they can’t agree on what to play? Ladybug Girl and Bumblebee Boy manages to teach a valuable lesson in compromise and negotiation – no adults needed – while remaining a story of imaginative adventure that is instantly appealing. Expressive and vibrant watercolors illustrate. I’m planning on getting this for our own personal library, a rarity in our world of loving a book for a week or two and then returning it and moving on.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged | 1 Comment

Hand of Isis

book coverHand of Isis by Jo Graham This is the story of Cleopatra, as told by her half-sister and advisor, Charmian, to the gods. The author’s note said all surviving stories of Cleopatra are from the Roman conquerors. Here, Charmian, Cleopatra, and half-sister Iras are a trio who, at a young age, ask Isis to make Cleopatra Pharaoh so they can serve all of Egypt better, whereupon she appears to all of them in different aspects and agrees. The gods are therefore important and real, but Alexandria is intellectual enough that Charmian hides her dreams, even when they appear to come true. Charmian and several other key characters are reincarnations of people who in past lives were Companions to other charismatic and important rulers – Alexander the Great, for sure, and Arthur is also alluded to. One of these stories is told in her previous novel, Black Ships. Still, Cleopatra’s story is plenty entertaining on its own, as she starts fourth or fifth in line for the throne, and works her way up as her various siblings kill each other off or die of plague. The country she finally inherits is fractured along the lines of old Egypt and the Hellenistic coast and laden with the burden of a too-large debt to Rome for previous aid. There’s friendship with a young local scholar, and balancing romance and the call of extreme duty. Charmian grows from a mischievous slave girl into Cleopatra’s advisor and event planner, creating the magic behind Cleopatra’s mystique.

Quibbles: We have a trio of women running the country, serving a goddess, yet all of the many births are attended by male doctors. No midwives in all of Egypt? As far as I’ve researched, giving birth attended by a male doctor is a quite recent phenomenon. Another – the included glossary does not distinguish between the many real, historical characters and some that were probably made up for the book, such as Charmian’s blond slave mother or her Jewish and gay best friend. It’s disappointing both because I’d really like to know where the line between fiction and history is and because the book seems otherwise very carefully researched. She does say in the author’s note that all of the technology mentioned – steam engines, etc. – are absolutely historically correct.

All in all though, this is wonderful book, fascinating on its own as a story of women making their way in a male world, of political intrigue, and a look into a time of learning and tolerance that died with Cleopatra. I look forward to reading Graham’s other books.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged , | Leave a comment

Protected: heartbeat

This content is password-protected. To view it, please enter the password below.

Posted in Uncategorized | Tagged | Enter your password to view comments.