Bel Canto

Right next to the fiction desk where I often sit, we have bags that are called Book Club Kits – 10 copies of the book with a reading guide packaged in a large canvas bag. The idea is that people can check out the whole bag, and everyone in the book club can have a copy of the book to read. It’s a nifty and popular idea. The problem is that people are always asking me to recommend books from this collection to them – not just for book clubs, but because they figure they must be especially good books. Why is it that book clubs seem to favor depressing books? I have read very few of the books in the collection because I’m just not that into reading depressing books. But, as a good librarian, it’s my duty to serve my patrons, and so I resolved to read more of the book club books. Here’s the first one:

Bel Canto by Ann Patchett A poor Latin American country tries to curry favor with a Japanese business man by hiring his favorite soprano to sing at a birthday party for him. A group of terrorists decides that this would be the perfect opportunity for kidnapping the president, and take everyone at the party hostage when they find that the president isn’t in attendance. Yes, there is great potential for unhappiness in this scenario, and the ending, I feel bound to warn you, merits at least a hanky or two. But in the meantime, the book is not a thriller, but a lyrical exploration of the people involved. It feels kind of like A Chorus Line, where the characters come under the spotlight one at a time and spill their guts for us, but with music by Chopin or Verdi. It also explores in loving detail what happens to the characters as they adapt to their new lives and forget the reality of the outside world. The reader, like the characters, is tempted to forget that hostage situations just don’t have happy endings for everyone concerned.

I listened to this book, performed by Anna Fields. She has a lovely rich voice, which is very nice for a book where the beauty of the voice features prominently. But she has difficulty differentiating between her male voices, a problem when the vast majority of the characters are men. And, while most of her accents are passable, her Japanese accent sounds remarkably similar to the French. Don’t ask me to explain this. These quibbles aside, I’d still recommend listening to the book, as her reading makes it that much more intimate an experience.

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A Long Overdue Review

Snake Hips by Anne Soffee This book has been on my to-read list for quite a while. I first looked into it when garrity was reading it, but as I was pregnant at the time and reading it had started labor for garrity, I put off reading until my due date, hoping it would do the same for me. Then Mr. Froggie Pants decided to come weeks early, and reading a book that would have to be (gasp!) purchased or inter-library loaned was put off again. Now, with tupelo doing tours for her next book, it seemed really past time to read her first one. But on to the book: Anne had what she thought was the perfect life with her (tattoo) artist boyfriend. Then he dumped her for not being cool enough. Heartbroken, she returned to Richmond. A friend suggests belly dancing as a means of recovery. The friend is joking, but Anne isn’t. Once she starts classes, she’s hooked. Soon she’s spending her evenings at multiple practices, her money on fabulously tacky costumes, and what little time is left over trying to find the perfect Arab sheik to marry and make little brown babies with. I might tell you to read this book anyway, just because I like tupelo and I know she’s reading this. But I was laughing out loud for most of the book. I had to force myself not to read most of it out loud to amnachaidh, because I knew he wanted to read it, too. My mother also really loved it. In general principal, memoirs by people you haven’t heard of are a dime a dozen, but this one is well worth reading. And I’ll ask our bio man to buy the new one for the library, so we can share the love.

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Feeding Mr. Froggie Pants

It has been just over a month now since Mr. Froggy Pants started on solid foods, for which occasion amnachaidh asked me to check out a baby food cookbook. I hadn’t really expected to find more than a couple books on the topic, but there were more than a dozen, so I found myself unable to get away with just one. So, here they are, along with a couple of useful Web sites.

Homemade Baby Food Pure and Simple by Constantina Linardakis This is the most comprehensive of the books I checked out, and toes the official medical line. It starts out with a detailed discussion of infant and toddler nutritional needs (including the advantages of breast milk) before proceeding to recipes. Starting with infant cereal (for which she recommends only iron-fortified packages stuff) and proceeding to more advanced recipes, all the recipes follow guidelines on when to introduce foods and include the major nutritional value of each dish. There is also a section of contributed recipes, which don’t include the nutritional profile, and one of recipes for supplies like homemade wipes and play-do. I don’t see us ever feeding Mr. FP liver, in spite of its high nutritional content, though. It’s a little on the dull side, and includes really cheesy little stories of fictional mommies happily breastfeeding or making baby food, but the advice and basic recipes are solid and useful.

Organic Baby Food by Lizzie Van This is a DK book, full of gorgeous, full-color pictures of yummy-looking food and adorable babies. Unfortunately, the pictures are the only aspect I can recommend about this book. The author seems to have no idea of current food recommendations for babies, although she is free with advice. The book includes not one single-food recipe, even though you’re supposed to start with single-ingredient foods. The first recipe has five or six different vegetables, oil and salt – and includes corn, which most experts say not to introduce until 10 or 12 months. I was horrified by one of the sidebar Q & As (paraphrased here): Q: I’m going back to work soon. Should I wean my baby to formula milk? A: No, don’t do it all at once. Wean your baby a couple of weeks before or after you go back to work. Pardon??? Not even a suggestion that returning to work might not necessitate weaning at all? Even looking at the recipes for toddlers, who have fewer restrictions, the recipes didn’t seem anything special. Not recommended.

The Baby Bistro Cookbook by Joohee Muromcew There’s no pediatrician panel backing this book, like Homemade Baby Food Pure and Simple and line drawings rather than the fancy full-color photos in Organic Baby Food. But this was our favorite. It starts out with simple single-food purees, as you might expect. Some of the early recipes are indeed overly simplistic. But move on, and there are lots of delightful recipes and suggestions for variations on standard food. It’s nicely multi-cultural, with simplified versions of ethnic cuisine – Mexican, Indian, Korean. Interestingly, where other people say not to give spicy food to babies, she says they often enjoy it, and to let your baby try. Maybe we could avoid Mr. FP having my spicy food handicap! Finally, in a Foods for Special Occasions section, she presents low-sugar recipes for treats, including some fruit drinks that look absolutely scrumptious. I especially appreciate that these are naturally low-sugar recipes – not using sugar substitutes, but made to taste yummy with less sugar. In general, the recipes look easy to follow, don’t seem to use obscure ingredients, and would be tasty for everyone, not just babies.

http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com – While this web site doesn’t have a whole lot of recipes for older babies, for instructions for do-it-yourself cereals and purees, this is the place to go. It also has tables of when to introduce foods, sample menus for a week of meals for different age ranges, and discussions of baby-food-related topics like, “Does my baby need iron-fortified cereal?” I’m very pleased to note that the site has recently been updated to reflect the new AAP guidelines for delaying solids until six months. All of the cookbooks above say to start solids at 4-6 months – the old recommendation – but really assume that you’ll be starting at four months and ready to move on to more frequent and more advanced foods by six months. The newly updated advice on this site is wonderfully helpful. If all you want is the basics, this site has it covered, for free. They’ll even answer your emailed questions.

http://www.kellymom.com – This site isn’t strictly about baby food, and doesn’t have any recipes. Kellymom has evidence based information breastfeeding, sleep and parenting, though I have mostly only looked at the breastfeeding information. Evidence based means that they cite literature and medical studies for all the advice they give – very helpful, and very refreshing. For the purposes of this discussion, it also has articles on iron supplementation, and schedules on introducing food with the intention of keeping breast milk baby’s primary source of nutrition during the first year. This is helpful, since a lot of information still follows older recommendations of weaning or seriously cutting back breastfeeding by six months. It also has lists of medicines and herbs that affect breast milk, both positively and negatively – so helpful if you need to know if you can take something while breastfeeding. This is a site I reference frequently.

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Chick Lit Defined

Bridget Jones’s Diary by Helen Fielding Chicklit is one of those genre terms that one hears bandied about of late – OK, at least I hear it bandied about – and this book is the one generally credited with starting the genre. The genre should feature a young but not too young hip, single woman in search of a fulfilling life and true love, with plenty of funny misadventures along the way. Yep, Fielding wrote the book. Obviously our 30-something heroine is looking for love, and we know she’s going to find it. She’s tired of all of her parents friends asking after her love life, hoping for a more inspiring career than publishing, trying to stop mooning over her boss, and trying to convince her best friend to dump Vile Richard. What makes this book stand out is the beautiful characterizations – not cardboardy, but not so deeply conflicted as to become maudlin. The characters, and the plot, feel like the color on real life was just turned up a couple of notches. It’s more realistic and believable than your average romance novel (OK, maybe not the subplot with her mother’s shady lover), but far enough removed from reality to be tons of fun.

As a side note, I listened to this book, narrated by the same woman who narrates the Victorian Amelia Peabody mysteries. Very bizarre to have the same (excellent) voice belong to a proper Victorian archaeologist and Bridget, who’s anything but.

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for garrity

And the WW… due out June

Pirate Girl by Cornelia Funke illus by Kerstin Meyer In which small Molly is kidnapped from her ship by the Horrible Haddocks. They laugh at her defiance, but not for long… her messages in bottles bring help in the form of her mother, Barbarous Bertha. PW says it “[hints] at a fierce mother-daughter bond.” Plus, Cornelia Funke is cool.

Ok, ending my geeky madness now.

I hope WW still likes some picture books.

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Grown-up Books

I told you it was so, and here it is: a couple of real written for grown-ups, not about babies books.

The Tea House on Mulberry Street by Sharon Owens Confession: I feel at times that I lack real grown-up literary appreciation skills. When I’m reading for pleasure, as long as either characters or plot are good, I’m OK with some other aspect being a little off. This book, though, made me revise my opinion of my literary evaluation skills upward a little. I read a review that said that the characters were a little wooden, the plot a little contrived, but all in all cute. I figured I’d still enjoy it, and the thought of a nice cosy Irish book was really appealing. The book follows the owners and customers of a small tea house in Belfast, with chapters devoted to different characters. The characters are highly stereotyped – the owner of the café, Penny, who really wants a baby but feels trapped by her husband, Daniel, who is neurotically stingy and doesn’t want to focus on anything but the business. There’s a starving artist, two self-righteous old ladies, and lots and lots of people looking for love and finding their current relationship not working for them. They are described in such a way that I couldn’t tell at first if the reader was supposed to like them or laugh at them, and I never did care terribly much what happened to them, though in the end, even the least sympathetic characters got happy endings. It was mildly entertaining, and I guess it did quite well in Ireland. I’ll try the new Alexander McCall Smith book, about residents of a boarding house in Scotland.

The Gilded Chamber: A Novel of Queen Esther by Rebecca Kohn Esther has always been a fascinating figure for me – I was always drawn to stories of women strong enough to find a place in the overwhelmingly male world of the Bible, and Esther is the only woman to have a whole book named after her. Brief plot summary: the King, having banished his previous wife, decides to annex every beautiful virgin in the kingdom, in hopes of forgetting his pain or something. Esther, a Jew, is taken and ends up being chosen as Queen, a powerful but still precarious position. Eventually, she uncovers a plot to destroy all the Jews, the King not knowing that she is one herself. I’m not sure that it’s quite as good as The Red Tent, the book to which it will inevitably be compared. It is similar in its women-centric view of a patriarchal society, and I think Kohn had a little more of a challenge working with the more structured Biblical story. It’s sometimes hard to believe that Esther can be as naïve as she claims and yet act with such political acumen. The story is really beautifully written and well worth reading.

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Music for Kids and Grown-Ups

A while back, garrity was asking for adult music, in English, that would be fun for kids to listen to. Here I have nearly the exact opposite – fun music meant for kids that adults will have fun listening to as well. This is the kind of music that I would put on for a party, or driving, or to motivate myself to do housecleaning, whether or not there are kids around. It is not your stereotypical mellow and sugary sweet kids’ music. And because I like world music, some of these have songs in other languages, too.

African Playground from Putumayo Kids
Latin American Playground from Putumayo Kids

OK, I don’t think I’ve heard a bad album from Putumayo yet, but these are really faboo. The songs are all outstanding, from acclaimed artists from all over the regions. They’re sung in whatever appropriate native language. The liner notes include a pronunciation guide for the artist and song title, background notes on the country, artist, and song, and complete lyrics in both the original language and English. I think there’s a Carribean Playground that I haven’t listened to yet, too. Everything you need to get down and jam with your global kids.

Kids at Heart by Golden Bough This one is Celtic music for kids, and it is sizzlin’ hot and jiggy.

All for Freedom by Sweet Honey in the Rock If you don’t know Sweet Honey in the Rock, you should. This all women, all-black a capella group defines soul in my book. They’ve done two kids’ albums, both of which I’ve really enjoyed. This album features a lot of traditional spirituals, together with some reflections on freedom and what it means. Like most of their work, it is both amazing to listen to and thought-provoking.

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Diaper Shops

The diapering world is nearly all on-line. Really, I haven’t seen anything in a regular store worth using except as a burp rag. On-line, there are zillions of players, from the relatively big small businesses, to tiny places where mothers make diapers as they have time and then sell them. Here are the places I’ve shopped:

Places I regularly go to:
http://www.naturalbabies.com – The navigation and site design here are pitiful. But Colleen carries all the most popular brands, including our favorite FuzziBunz and SugarPeas. Her prices are standard to cheap, and she ships things right away. Usually that day if you place an order before noon, and the next day on orders placed at night. She’s in Northville, just a couple towns over from us, so the combo means I get my stuff super fast.

http://www.zensicallife.com – This site was brand-new when I first visited in December. She has bulk discounts on Sugar Peas (carries other brands as well), and loyalty discounts after you spend set amounts of money.

http://www.babybunz.com – This is the only site I’ve seen that sells the ultra-cheap Snugglebottoms diapers. Not our favorites, but like I said, cheap. This company is big enough to do a print catalog, too.

Places I’ve been once:
So I didn’t anticipate going to lots and lots of stores, but sometimes places have sales that I hear about, and I try them. I’ve also bought some fun novelty diapers, both for Mr. Froggy Pants and for baby showers.

http://www.nurturedfamily.com – They had the Baby Bits that we use for our wipes water in stock, and gave me nice coupons for other stuff. OK, I guess I’ve been there twice.

http://www.starbunz.com/ – I didn’t actually buy from here – but check out the list of retailers of these ultra-cute animal diapers. I bought from one of them, but they’ve changed their name since, and anyway, it was just the cute, cute, diaper.

http://www.kellyscloset.com/ – This is another bigger place with a Print Catalog, and (very unusual) they sent everything individually shrink-wrapped. But, they have lots of stuff, regular specials, and always offer free shipping.

http://www.fernandfaerie.com – This is the home of the ultra-cute Recycle Diaper, made from thrift store jeans or t-shirts. They’re a bit pricey for everyday wear, but you know you want at least one.

http://tushiecoverz.com/ – OK, I bought one of her items in a charity auction at http://www.wahmchicks.com/ It was a very cool fleece diaper embroidered with a Japanese dragon. Again, too expensive for every day, and she doesn’t make that many of them, but very cool.

I haven’t been here, but they sound cool:
http://www.treecitydiapers.com – Molly lives in Ann Arbor, and, if you live in the area, will deliver to your door, or let you come to her house and look at the goods in person. [Update 2007: Now our natural parenting store of choice, especially since she has a real store. We don’t need more diaper supplies, but she has lots of really cool toys and a large selection of baby wearing products.]

http://www.cottonbabies.com – They will trade in used diapers for the next size up, and you can also buy second-hand diapers here. They also include free inserts with their FuzziBunz. Not the hemp inserts, but still a good deal. This is one of the best-known diaper sites.

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More diaper stuff

Yes, I was asked, so I wrote up how we wash diapers. But to spare you non cloth-diapering types, I investigated the lj cut feature.

How to wash diapers my way

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One Classic and Three Sequels

All right. So for this outing, we have one Classic Graphic Novel, for the education of sapphireone, and three sequels, solely for her reading pleasure on recovering from surgery. I’ll be getting back to new adult and more mainstream books soon – but books like these are hot bubble baths for sapphireones.

Watchmen by Alan Moore and Dave Gibbons This is a hard book to review, and hard to read. Watchmen is one of the classics of the graphic novel genre, one of the ones that people point to when wishing to demonstrate that comics can be serious and geared towards adults. The Watchmen refers to former superheroes, now forbidden from acting as superheroes, and dealing with both the murder of one of their least likeable members and impending nuclear war. Although it involves superheroes, right and wrong are hard to tell apart. It is compelling, violent, difficult, and the most interesting characters are the least likeable. Read it at your own peril.

Enna Burning by Shannon Hale In this sequel to Goose Girl, which I previously reviewed, we return to the land of Bayern, now following the best friend of the princess. It’s a good book, but sadly, not quite as fabulous as the first one.

Abarat: Days of Magic, Nights of War by Clive Barker This sequel, on the other hand, is just as fabulous and fantastic as the first book, Abarat. Our heroine, Candy Quackenbush, is still exploring the many islands of the Abarat, each a different hour of the day and filled with its own particular wonders. She makes some new friends and pursues old ones, all the while pursued by the evil Christopher Carrion and his mother Mater Motley. The book, like the first one, is printed on heavy glossy paper, with full color paintings by the author illustrating the events and strange creatures described. You’ll want to start with the first one if you haven’t read it yet, but this is fantasy of the most blissful sort, full of great beauty, great evil, memorable characters and a marvelous adventure.

The Usurper’s Crown by Sarah Zettel I read a lot of Sarah, and will be reading more, as we have two more new books of hers just waiting to be read. She writes what I consider to be superlative fantasy – detailed worlds that are not too confusing to remember, intricate plots, and well-rounded, larger-than-life but still very human characters, none of whom is truly evil. This last is particularly rare in the world of fantasy, where the good guys are usually out against a Big Bad. This particular book is the second in the Isavalta series, switching between Lake Superior and a fantasy world resembling Russia and surrounding countries. It’s actually set earlier in time that the first book, explaining many of the characters we met there. Ingrid Loftfield was living an ordinary life on Lake Superior when she fell in love with the man who saved her sister. He thought he was in permanent exile from Isavalta and his position as the empress’s sorcerer – but when she calls him back, they both go.

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