The Half-Blood Prince

Well, I finally finished the book I was rereading, and finished the new Harry Potter. Yay! And big thanks to Sean (who won’t read this) for loaning us the Canadian edition, so we can have our crisps and jumpers instead of chips and sweaters. It’s the little things, I tell ya’. I’m feeling a bit too lazy to do a cut, so we have here a spoiler-free review for anybody who hasn’t finished it yet.

Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince by J.K. Rowling In which Harry finishes his sixth year at Hogwarts, a Beloved Character dies, and our friends are now old enough for Snogging, of which there is quite a bit. I’m with garrity on not really being surprised by any of the developments here, although she’s farther on the track of solving the remaining mystery than I am. It’s full of the endearing (and not-so-endearing) characters we’ve come to love, plus new magical tidbits and exciting plot bits. Oh-so-happily, Dolores Umbridge makes only a token appearance towards the end. Perhaps even more happily, Rowling’s editor seems to have gotten some gumption back and trimmed the book down to a reasonable size. Where the last book felt like it had pages of redundant material, this one moved along at a nice clip. Based on this book, I am quite looking forward to the next one, where I had been less excited about this one. If you, too, were putting off reading it, do so no longer.

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Veggie Power

This summer we’re getting a large bag of produce from a local farm every week – an assortment of whatever they have in season. I’m sure we’re eating better than usual, and we’re getting better at using up our share every week, except for the herbs. It’s a cooking adventure – how can one use up a two-gallon bag of basil without overdosing on pesto? I checked out two cookbooks just on vegetables. One of them I regret to say that I’ve forgotten the title already, but you don’t need to read it anyway. It was by some celebrity chef and had big, pretty photos of difficult-to-make recipes using obscure ingredients. No, we can’t really afford truffle oil on a regular basis. It was nice food porn, but food porn is pretty easy to find, so I’m not going to feel guilty about forgetting the title already. Here’s the one I didn’t forget:

Fresh From the Garden: Cooking and Gardening throughout the Year with 250 Recipes by Perla Meyers I quite enjoyed this book. It’s broken up first by season, then by vegetable. Each veggie starts with a little introduction on what it’s good for, gardening and storage tips. Then, a few recipes featuring the vegetable, and probably using some other things in season at the same time. The recipes are pretty straightforward, and seem geared towards the traditional cook. That is, they didn’t seem to take huge amounts of time, but they also assume that you have more than fifteen minutes to put dinner together. Also (and my biggest problem with the book), most of the dishes are either side dishes or include large amounts of meat, or both. Many of the dishes said how marvelous they would taste with veal. I’m a big fan of one-dish meals without meat. I probably won’t buy the cookbook, but the structure was brilliant, and the recipes worked well with some tweaking.

And finally, just a note on
New Best Recipe by the editors of Cook’s Illustrated I really only glanced at this myself, but spent six weeks reading through it. As it says, it’s recipes from the magazine, where they try to make the ideal whatever it is – tomato soup or blueberry pie or whatever – and talk you through all the variations they tried and what they did before giving you the final recipe. It’s also not particularly vegetarian friendly, but if you cook like amnachaidh or spacemice, you will want this book to promote deep cookery thoughts.

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Marriage

Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy, or How Love Conquered Marriage by Stephanie Coontz Is marriage as an institution in crisis? The answer seems to be yes almost uniformly, although what the problem is and what to do about it varies from one end of the political spectrum to the other. Author Coontz agrees that marriage is going through a rough time right now – but her analysis of why is unique. Coontz examines marriage around the world and through history, examining who, how and why people married, and their attitudes towards issues like children, fidelity, choice of partners and inheritance. Filled with juicy details of the alliances of kings and queens, as well as excerpts from diaries and letters, she manages to focus both on the personal and overall trends. Her conclusion: while marriage has always been in flux, today’s emphasis on love and mutual satisfaction has made the modern marriage both the most satisfying and the most fragile in history. This is a fascinating read for anyone interested in where we’ve come from and where we might be going.

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On Domesticity

I was raised in a house where everybody had lists of chores to be done. It was kind of a drag to have to do your chores before going out to play, but the whole house got cleaned every week. I don’t think my share ever took more than a couple of hours – maybe three in the years I had to mow the yard with an old-fashioned push mower. Now I have a house roughly the same size as the one I shared with four other people, and there’s only one other person to help clean it. Plus one person who doesn’t much see a need for cleaning, or any other activity that keeps his mommy from playing with him. In lieu of actually cleaning, I’ve been reading a series of books on on cleaning.

Is There Life after Housework? by Don Aslett This book, a 10th anniversary edition with a 1992 copyright date, seemed a little old. But the tattered covers and layers of checkout stickers show that it’s still a popular work, and quite deservedly. Aslett, a professional cleaner and father of six, tells how to set up your house so it is easier to clean and then how to clean as efficiently as possible. For example, he recommends at least eight steps worth of professional quality doormatting inside and out to trap dirt before you have to sweep it off your floor. It’s short, to the point, and quite funny. There are some newer cleaning materials on the market since this book was finished – microfiber, for example – but all in all, if you’re feeling swamped with housework and want some help speeding it up, this is still a great book to go with.

Speed Cleaning 101: Cut Your Cleaning Time in Half by Laura Dellutri This book has a 2005 copyright date but, alas, not much new in the way of advice, and quite a few contradictions. Some good tips on how to organize cleaning, like starting at one door to a room and cleaning in a circle, top to bottom, for maximum efficiency, and some hints on splitting up work for team cleaning. But, for example, she’s talking about bathrooms and says that since toilets can spew invisible germs, you should train everyone in your family to shut the lid when flushing. Next, she talks about cleaning the bathroom counter and says that you should only clean the parts that look dirty. So we no longer care about the invisible germs that the toilet spewed everywhere? And “Keep your cleaning kit simple” followed by “Browse the cleaning aisle at your grocery store for spiffy new products.” Also I didn’t like her thoughts on the current overuse of antibacterial cleaners in the home, which basically amounted to, “Well, it’s important to keep things clean.” She has some nice thoughts about deciding how clean you personally want to keep things, but there are better books out there.

Home Comforts: the Art and Science of Keeping House by Cheryl Mendelson At well over 800 pages, this book answers every question you might have about making your residence a home, but is not for the faint of heart. It’s kind of like the Joy of Cooking for housekeeping, and it is housekeeping, not just cleaning. Like Joy, it’s not meant to be read straight through, as I did. Gentle readers, for you I undertook this task, which took me seven weeks. Also, I kept meaning to skip things, and kept finding it too interesting. Everyone I told I was reading this book thought I was nuts. Everyone I got to read the introduction wanted to read the whole book, too. The introduction talks about how the author, an attorney, used not to keep her place up, as it was so very unfashionable to have time and energy for so lowly a task. Then she realized how much homier it made things and so cleaned in secret to avoid the social stigma. Well, publishing the book blew her cover. Here are just a few of the topics covered: setting up a cleaning routine; organizing a pantry; planning menus; how to fold laundry; the chemistry of household cleaners; a really nice discussion on when antibacterials are and aren’t appropriate; preserving your valuables; buying insurance; working with domestic help. Manuals like this were common a century ago. You (and I) would probably be better off owning one, too.

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Bel Canto

Right next to the fiction desk where I often sit, we have bags that are called Book Club Kits – 10 copies of the book with a reading guide packaged in a large canvas bag. The idea is that people can check out the whole bag, and everyone in the book club can have a copy of the book to read. It’s a nifty and popular idea. The problem is that people are always asking me to recommend books from this collection to them – not just for book clubs, but because they figure they must be especially good books. Why is it that book clubs seem to favor depressing books? I have read very few of the books in the collection because I’m just not that into reading depressing books. But, as a good librarian, it’s my duty to serve my patrons, and so I resolved to read more of the book club books. Here’s the first one:

Bel Canto by Ann Patchett A poor Latin American country tries to curry favor with a Japanese business man by hiring his favorite soprano to sing at a birthday party for him. A group of terrorists decides that this would be the perfect opportunity for kidnapping the president, and take everyone at the party hostage when they find that the president isn’t in attendance. Yes, there is great potential for unhappiness in this scenario, and the ending, I feel bound to warn you, merits at least a hanky or two. But in the meantime, the book is not a thriller, but a lyrical exploration of the people involved. It feels kind of like A Chorus Line, where the characters come under the spotlight one at a time and spill their guts for us, but with music by Chopin or Verdi. It also explores in loving detail what happens to the characters as they adapt to their new lives and forget the reality of the outside world. The reader, like the characters, is tempted to forget that hostage situations just don’t have happy endings for everyone concerned.

I listened to this book, performed by Anna Fields. She has a lovely rich voice, which is very nice for a book where the beauty of the voice features prominently. But she has difficulty differentiating between her male voices, a problem when the vast majority of the characters are men. And, while most of her accents are passable, her Japanese accent sounds remarkably similar to the French. Don’t ask me to explain this. These quibbles aside, I’d still recommend listening to the book, as her reading makes it that much more intimate an experience.

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A Long Overdue Review

Snake Hips by Anne Soffee This book has been on my to-read list for quite a while. I first looked into it when garrity was reading it, but as I was pregnant at the time and reading it had started labor for garrity, I put off reading until my due date, hoping it would do the same for me. Then Mr. Froggie Pants decided to come weeks early, and reading a book that would have to be (gasp!) purchased or inter-library loaned was put off again. Now, with tupelo doing tours for her next book, it seemed really past time to read her first one. But on to the book: Anne had what she thought was the perfect life with her (tattoo) artist boyfriend. Then he dumped her for not being cool enough. Heartbroken, she returned to Richmond. A friend suggests belly dancing as a means of recovery. The friend is joking, but Anne isn’t. Once she starts classes, she’s hooked. Soon she’s spending her evenings at multiple practices, her money on fabulously tacky costumes, and what little time is left over trying to find the perfect Arab sheik to marry and make little brown babies with. I might tell you to read this book anyway, just because I like tupelo and I know she’s reading this. But I was laughing out loud for most of the book. I had to force myself not to read most of it out loud to amnachaidh, because I knew he wanted to read it, too. My mother also really loved it. In general principal, memoirs by people you haven’t heard of are a dime a dozen, but this one is well worth reading. And I’ll ask our bio man to buy the new one for the library, so we can share the love.

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Feeding Mr. Froggie Pants

It has been just over a month now since Mr. Froggy Pants started on solid foods, for which occasion amnachaidh asked me to check out a baby food cookbook. I hadn’t really expected to find more than a couple books on the topic, but there were more than a dozen, so I found myself unable to get away with just one. So, here they are, along with a couple of useful Web sites.

Homemade Baby Food Pure and Simple by Constantina Linardakis This is the most comprehensive of the books I checked out, and toes the official medical line. It starts out with a detailed discussion of infant and toddler nutritional needs (including the advantages of breast milk) before proceeding to recipes. Starting with infant cereal (for which she recommends only iron-fortified packages stuff) and proceeding to more advanced recipes, all the recipes follow guidelines on when to introduce foods and include the major nutritional value of each dish. There is also a section of contributed recipes, which don’t include the nutritional profile, and one of recipes for supplies like homemade wipes and play-do. I don’t see us ever feeding Mr. FP liver, in spite of its high nutritional content, though. It’s a little on the dull side, and includes really cheesy little stories of fictional mommies happily breastfeeding or making baby food, but the advice and basic recipes are solid and useful.

Organic Baby Food by Lizzie Van This is a DK book, full of gorgeous, full-color pictures of yummy-looking food and adorable babies. Unfortunately, the pictures are the only aspect I can recommend about this book. The author seems to have no idea of current food recommendations for babies, although she is free with advice. The book includes not one single-food recipe, even though you’re supposed to start with single-ingredient foods. The first recipe has five or six different vegetables, oil and salt – and includes corn, which most experts say not to introduce until 10 or 12 months. I was horrified by one of the sidebar Q & As (paraphrased here): Q: I’m going back to work soon. Should I wean my baby to formula milk? A: No, don’t do it all at once. Wean your baby a couple of weeks before or after you go back to work. Pardon??? Not even a suggestion that returning to work might not necessitate weaning at all? Even looking at the recipes for toddlers, who have fewer restrictions, the recipes didn’t seem anything special. Not recommended.

The Baby Bistro Cookbook by Joohee Muromcew There’s no pediatrician panel backing this book, like Homemade Baby Food Pure and Simple and line drawings rather than the fancy full-color photos in Organic Baby Food. But this was our favorite. It starts out with simple single-food purees, as you might expect. Some of the early recipes are indeed overly simplistic. But move on, and there are lots of delightful recipes and suggestions for variations on standard food. It’s nicely multi-cultural, with simplified versions of ethnic cuisine – Mexican, Indian, Korean. Interestingly, where other people say not to give spicy food to babies, she says they often enjoy it, and to let your baby try. Maybe we could avoid Mr. FP having my spicy food handicap! Finally, in a Foods for Special Occasions section, she presents low-sugar recipes for treats, including some fruit drinks that look absolutely scrumptious. I especially appreciate that these are naturally low-sugar recipes – not using sugar substitutes, but made to taste yummy with less sugar. In general, the recipes look easy to follow, don’t seem to use obscure ingredients, and would be tasty for everyone, not just babies.

http://www.wholesomebabyfood.com – While this web site doesn’t have a whole lot of recipes for older babies, for instructions for do-it-yourself cereals and purees, this is the place to go. It also has tables of when to introduce foods, sample menus for a week of meals for different age ranges, and discussions of baby-food-related topics like, “Does my baby need iron-fortified cereal?” I’m very pleased to note that the site has recently been updated to reflect the new AAP guidelines for delaying solids until six months. All of the cookbooks above say to start solids at 4-6 months – the old recommendation – but really assume that you’ll be starting at four months and ready to move on to more frequent and more advanced foods by six months. The newly updated advice on this site is wonderfully helpful. If all you want is the basics, this site has it covered, for free. They’ll even answer your emailed questions.

http://www.kellymom.com – This site isn’t strictly about baby food, and doesn’t have any recipes. Kellymom has evidence based information breastfeeding, sleep and parenting, though I have mostly only looked at the breastfeeding information. Evidence based means that they cite literature and medical studies for all the advice they give – very helpful, and very refreshing. For the purposes of this discussion, it also has articles on iron supplementation, and schedules on introducing food with the intention of keeping breast milk baby’s primary source of nutrition during the first year. This is helpful, since a lot of information still follows older recommendations of weaning or seriously cutting back breastfeeding by six months. It also has lists of medicines and herbs that affect breast milk, both positively and negatively – so helpful if you need to know if you can take something while breastfeeding. This is a site I reference frequently.

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Chick Lit Defined

Bridget Jones’s Diary by Helen Fielding Chicklit is one of those genre terms that one hears bandied about of late – OK, at least I hear it bandied about – and this book is the one generally credited with starting the genre. The genre should feature a young but not too young hip, single woman in search of a fulfilling life and true love, with plenty of funny misadventures along the way. Yep, Fielding wrote the book. Obviously our 30-something heroine is looking for love, and we know she’s going to find it. She’s tired of all of her parents friends asking after her love life, hoping for a more inspiring career than publishing, trying to stop mooning over her boss, and trying to convince her best friend to dump Vile Richard. What makes this book stand out is the beautiful characterizations – not cardboardy, but not so deeply conflicted as to become maudlin. The characters, and the plot, feel like the color on real life was just turned up a couple of notches. It’s more realistic and believable than your average romance novel (OK, maybe not the subplot with her mother’s shady lover), but far enough removed from reality to be tons of fun.

As a side note, I listened to this book, narrated by the same woman who narrates the Victorian Amelia Peabody mysteries. Very bizarre to have the same (excellent) voice belong to a proper Victorian archaeologist and Bridget, who’s anything but.

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for garrity

And the WW… due out June

Pirate Girl by Cornelia Funke illus by Kerstin Meyer In which small Molly is kidnapped from her ship by the Horrible Haddocks. They laugh at her defiance, but not for long… her messages in bottles bring help in the form of her mother, Barbarous Bertha. PW says it “[hints] at a fierce mother-daughter bond.” Plus, Cornelia Funke is cool.

Ok, ending my geeky madness now.

I hope WW still likes some picture books.

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Grown-up Books

I told you it was so, and here it is: a couple of real written for grown-ups, not about babies books.

The Tea House on Mulberry Street by Sharon Owens Confession: I feel at times that I lack real grown-up literary appreciation skills. When I’m reading for pleasure, as long as either characters or plot are good, I’m OK with some other aspect being a little off. This book, though, made me revise my opinion of my literary evaluation skills upward a little. I read a review that said that the characters were a little wooden, the plot a little contrived, but all in all cute. I figured I’d still enjoy it, and the thought of a nice cosy Irish book was really appealing. The book follows the owners and customers of a small tea house in Belfast, with chapters devoted to different characters. The characters are highly stereotyped – the owner of the café, Penny, who really wants a baby but feels trapped by her husband, Daniel, who is neurotically stingy and doesn’t want to focus on anything but the business. There’s a starving artist, two self-righteous old ladies, and lots and lots of people looking for love and finding their current relationship not working for them. They are described in such a way that I couldn’t tell at first if the reader was supposed to like them or laugh at them, and I never did care terribly much what happened to them, though in the end, even the least sympathetic characters got happy endings. It was mildly entertaining, and I guess it did quite well in Ireland. I’ll try the new Alexander McCall Smith book, about residents of a boarding house in Scotland.

The Gilded Chamber: A Novel of Queen Esther by Rebecca Kohn Esther has always been a fascinating figure for me – I was always drawn to stories of women strong enough to find a place in the overwhelmingly male world of the Bible, and Esther is the only woman to have a whole book named after her. Brief plot summary: the King, having banished his previous wife, decides to annex every beautiful virgin in the kingdom, in hopes of forgetting his pain or something. Esther, a Jew, is taken and ends up being chosen as Queen, a powerful but still precarious position. Eventually, she uncovers a plot to destroy all the Jews, the King not knowing that she is one herself. I’m not sure that it’s quite as good as The Red Tent, the book to which it will inevitably be compared. It is similar in its women-centric view of a patriarchal society, and I think Kohn had a little more of a challenge working with the more structured Biblical story. It’s sometimes hard to believe that Esther can be as naïve as she claims and yet act with such political acumen. The story is really beautifully written and well worth reading.

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